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  Spent an hour and half half in bed crying and writing a letter in my head to my ex about her calling me “he” on Monday and laughing at and criticizing my outfit on Tuesday, and asking her why she hates me so much, why she just wants to hurt me. I’ll never send it. But I wish I at least understood. All I ever did was love her with kindness and compassion. And all I ever wad to her was the thing she tied up to her emotional whipping post. Why?

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  Someone sent me an announcement about plans for Transgender Day of Remembrance and…sigh… straight white people really do love their performative activism. Like y’all just go ahead and do that thing where you wait until we die so you can post selfies of yourself hanging heads in sadness.

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  RE: https://eldritch.cafe/@Gwendolyn/117524715072373558 😢 It’s me. I am that fucking bitch. I am so sorry. There is a picture of me at 5, so young I don’t remember. Lip inflamed. I don’t even know where I got it from. I was 5! My mom? Who knows. My entire life I have carried them. And they erupt with stress. Which is ironic since they cause me so much stress. I am so hyper-sensitive to the pre-eruption aura that sometimes I will not kiss my children for a day until I remember that put hot sa...

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  She never loved me. It was all a lie. The whole thing was a lie.

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  RE: https://mastodon.art/@Stonneslove/117524709724805218 Me and which masc trans woman without bottom dysphoria? (I know she won’t get hard, silly! I just like to make her try because it’s fun to watch you squirm in needy pain. Give her to me, I want to play with her while you moan and squirm. 😘)

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  Picard is … gone? I’m signing off for the day.

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  I talk to cis people about what has happened to me in my life because I’m trans and the things I’ve had to do to survive, and I forget that it’s not a good idea. Like I watch them process the information as if trying to convince themselves that this much emotional and physical violence is even possible to survive and I get really angry like fuck you fucking people you don’t even fucking realize! They literally would not be able to handle even just hearing the fucking STORIES of SO MANY trans...

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  I love how every story you hear about Esperanto talks about “universal” and “everyone” and “worldwide” and “global peace” “common language” and never “it’s basically just a European language because we can have even more European colonization as a treat!”

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  RE: https://cosocial.ca/@mhoye/117439624526559997 There exists, somewhere in time during the late 90s, email conversations on the Linux kernel listserv, where a woman (and anthropologist) discussed the difficulty of contributing, the problems with accessibility, and rather than simply complain, offered to take on the work of helping address them, since she had experience. She was shouted out of the room so violently that she never bothered coming back.

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  RE: https://mastodon.social/@cmconseils/117312308144486055 Uh probably because men are fragile as fuck and know they are already on…ahem…thin ice.

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  RE: https://infosec.exchange/@0xabad1dea/117291496412447337 Did you read this, Tyla? Sure did, Other Tyla?

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  I think a permanent, monogamous D/s dynamic with the right person would be such a dream. But I can’t see how that person would be dominant while not being domineering, which is all I’ve ever known.

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  Who are some good current women rockers? Punk or rock, possibly gay, definitely angry. I need some new music.

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  RE: https://mastodon.social/@gwynnion/117039736519098835 Which is, after all, the point.

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  It’s not about the bathrooms. It’s not about the sports. It’s not about the convenience. It’s not about the safety. It’s not about the accuracy. It’s not about the consistency. People! 👏 IT 👏 IS 👏 ABOUT 👏 CONTROL!

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  RE: https://mastodon.online/@alexwild/117016130702874906 *reads first sentence, glances awkwardly at @LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt

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  I’m not sure white people realize this but The International Association of African Diaspora Culture regulates the use of all imagery of Black people. So if there’s a Black person on the bottle of that Barbeque sauce, you can be assured it’s Genuine Black People Food™️

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  Okay, it looks like I might be able to bend and see down well enough that I could tattoo a little butterfly head and wings directly above my clitoral hood, and get at least the top of the butterfly wings on either side of my vulva. So my vulva itself would be the butterfly body. I’ll have to think about this because the bottom of the wings will need to be done in a mirror.

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  RE: https://kinkycats.org/@aces_funhouse/117009124296738501 Okay, I have a wild response to this. I’m autistic and can’t figure out pickup lines, but I’m a manic pixie autistic, and so am very familiar with saying the most absolutely ridiculous shit. So I actually have a note on my phone where I am storing Tyla’s Comically Unhinged Lesbian Pickup Lines. For example: “Wow you have a lot of tattoos! I bet I have more tattoos that you, but there’s only one way to make sure I’m not lying.” And...

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  Relax, it’s on my outer labia. I’m not a monster.

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  Politicians out here today like “No matter how we feel about queer people, outright vehicular violence is never an answer. We should seek other ways to live with our queer countryman, such as destructive legislation, censorship of their media, and slow societal rejection.”

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  So apparently straight women still put me into the “he’s trying to fuck me” box even post transition, which…well shit.

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  Bisexual in that I mostly use Cholula, but every once in a while I enjoy Tapatío.

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  RE: https://mastodon.social/@gwynnion/116976116252877834 What that “easier” assumption misses is that closeted trans lesbian still (often, not always) treat women as “other women” while seeing ourselves as women. My entire experience was men (and women too) telling me I interacted with women “wrong,” thought about women “wrong,” treated women “wrong.” Because so much of male interaction with women is from a DeBeauvoiresque Second Sex perspective, where women are objectified, classified, sexual...

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  So my ex-wife (still bleeding, that wound) keeps having dates with men and they are men she’s known for a long time and had crushes on for a long time and after one date she’s icked out because they act like…well, men. And I find it so funny that I broke her hetero comfort. Like honey you were married to a woman for 21 years, being with a man is gonna be a bitter pill.

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  RE: https://ohai.social/@redsad/116965794325662056 OMG this has happened to me so many fucking times!

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  Friend without children: “How’s your first week without the kids going.” Me: “Living alone without my children is as close as I can come to my own personal hell.” Friend: “…I know how much this all sucks.” No you don’t. You really, really don’t.

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  Men on Fedi like “What do you mean ‘all unsolicited advice is criticism?’ I give unsolicited advice all the time. Maybe instead of calling it criticism you should…”

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  Living alone fucking sucks.

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  That Trans femme feeling when someone on the phone calls you “ma’am” and then apologizes for calling you ma’am because they obviously got that wrong. Then switched to “misses.” 😱