@stux@mstdn.social My father and I had a complex relationship (I was raised by grandparents and aunt.) I started doing all his paperwork, taxes, accounting, etc in 2012 after we "rebuilt" our relationship. By 2016, that had failed due to his behavior. He got mad and threatened to come get all his files. I told him to come get them and I was done. I took all the files, put them in a large storage crate and just mixed them up. No way they could easily pull any info from them without lots of time sorting. Years later, after he died in 2022, that plastic crate of files was still mixed up like balls in a lottery machine. lol.