I’ve noticed this happen repeatedly in various nsfw fanfictions, manga, and webtoons, but when a character has some kind of fetish or benign kink… they usually don’t go along with it, instead they will “fix them”? For example it will be like… ‘he likes kink because he’s unsatisfied otherwise’, and the seme satisfies him by just penising him really good, no kink needed. Or if the character has a fetish the other will ‘show them REAL sexual excitement so they can distinguish the feelings’. To me that’s so LAME!! like hey vanilla authors what’s your problem? 😭 you never want to play along? Not even when you make your characters have kinks and fetishes? Rude 😭😭